Sometimes in relationships you are quick to blame yourself for why it is your partner is mean or unfaithful to you. For those of you who are obsessive caretakers, you are quick to accept others faults and unfortunately their responsibilities. However, not everyone you might be dating or are in love with is fit to be with you. Sometimes other peoples issues go real deep and require much more than your love and acceptance. It might be that they're in need of professional help as well.