Monday, February 2, 2009

Why Your Mate is A Cheater – Part One

Recently I wrote an article about the seven main reasons why people cheat. In that article I sighted the most obvious reasons why someone would have the audacity to have an emotional or sexual liaison outside of a committed relationship or marriage.

In this article, I would like to focus on reason number one; why it is your husband or wife will commit infidelity. And if you’re in a relationship with someone who is cheating on you I would like to help you understand the mindset surrounding the cheater’s reality.

The number one reason why your boyfriend or husband is a cheater ladies is due to a lack of integrity. Now when you look that word, integrity, up in the dictionary it defines integrity as someone who has a strict adherence to a standard of conduct or value. The word has such friends in its definition as unity, honesty, soundness, and independence.

So consider for a minute what it is your man is doing. It is not about you. It was never about you and the sooner you understand that, the quicker you will heal. Today, you are the fall victim to the sickness of a diseased mind; A mind who has no idea what it means to be faithful, honest, and of integrity.

Don’t let the actions of someone you love downsize the person you have worked your life to become. Claim your truth and let it guide you out of this place of darkness and if he, or she, is unwilling to get some help either through couple’s counseling or some major lifestyle change, continue onward my friend. There are brighter days ahead. You will get through this time and your relationship with yourself will prosper even if the one with your mate doesn’t.

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