Sunday, January 25, 2009

5 Ways to Get a Guy to Like You

Trying to find the perfect guy or girl to date is similar to finding the right business online that will make you enough money to be able to quit your full-time job. It’s not an impossible task but what it requires, many people fail to do.

Hoping to meet that man or woman of your dreams, someone who will be with you through thick and thin, a person who is honest, self aware, kind, and compassionate will be about as easy as losing 20 pounds of fat. It’s definitely an attainable goal but look at how many people actually succeed.

Praying that one day he will just descend from the Heavens and land right at your doorsteps with twelve dozens roses, enough money to take care of you (and the kids), a rock hard body, and an infectious charm is about as likely to happen as I am at taking over Ezine Articles as its new CEO. Not completely impossible but a bit of a stretch of the imagination.

It’s not a secret that relationships can be very difficult. Finding someone is not the problem. People are starting relationships everyday of every week around the world. Unfortunately, just like Internet Marketing, people don’t stay with their significant other for very long. They either think that the grass is greener someplace else, or they find something that promises to be better.

At the heart of their problem is that they do not want to do the necessary work involved in nurturing and maintaining their relationship. Inevitably, there will be some relationships that need to be left behind, but if you are continuously in and out of multiple relationships, you might be using your relationships as a crutch, distraction, or disguise.

You are reading this article because you want to know the 5 ways to get a guy to like you, right? Well, I’m going to share with you the 5 things that you can do that won’t require you to be somebody that you are not. It doesn’t involve trickery or deception, lying, or cheating. But it may require you to get out of your comfort zone and work towards what it is you desire.

• Write down what kind of man you want and be very specific
• Be your own savior, best friend, secure your own emotions
• Visualize and feel yourself meeting this man or woman (do this daily)
• Change your mindset (old habits, beliefs, opinions will need revision)
• Give to others ( open your heart and mind and give love freely without expecting a return)

You must do these things as a lifestyle change and not just as a means to an end. The best part of the journey is in the actual discoveries along the way. If you are patient and kind to yourself during the process, you will soon discover that getting a guy to like you was just the start to something much greater.

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