Take this test to decide if you really love your husband. If you pass you're in the green if you fail maybe therapy would help.
Does he share the tasks around the house with you on a frequent bases?
Does he listen to your wants and needs when you speak?
Does he massage your body at least once a month after a hard days work?
Does he tell you at least once a month that he loves you (while not having sex)?
And finally does he split the responsibility of child rearing with you?
If you've answered NO to most of these questions and you're still with this man then you either love him or you're just plain lost.